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No. 122
How Do I Love Thee? (Sonnet 43)
Elizabeth Barrett Browning, 1850
How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.
I love thee to the depth and breadth and height
My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight
For the ends of being and ideal grace.
I love thee to the level of every day's
Most quiet need, by sun and candle-light.
I love thee freely, as men strive for right.
I love thee purely, as they turn from praise.
I love thee with the passion put to use
In my old griefs, and with my childhood's faith.
I love thee with a love I seemed to lose
With my lost saints. I love thee with the breath,
Smiles, tears, of all my life; and, if God choose,
I shall but love thee better after death.
— Elizabeth Barrett Browning, 1850

About the Poem

Browning turns the Petrarchan sonnet into an inventory of devotion. The opening question becomes a measuring device, stretching love across depth, breadth, height, and the unseen spiritual realm.

Midway she contrasts ordinary daily acts with grand passions, claiming love that is both domestic—"by sun and candle-light"—and heroic, aligned with moral striving and youthful faith.

The closing promise carries love beyond death, suggesting a bond that will only intensify in eternity. The sonnet reassures readers that genuine affection can be both practical and boundless.

Interpretation generated with assistance from Claude.